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23 December 2006 @ 06:13 pm
Murder, death, kill  
If another person asks me why I'm not pregnant/have children yet, bad things will happen.  I mean seriously, do they think that they're suggesting something I hadn't already though long and hard about?  Hey, how come you don't have a baby yet?  Ya know, I hadn't thought of that.  I'm going to get started right this second.  Thanks for bringing it up.  If you hadn't said anything to me I would have spent the rest of my days barren and my parents will die unfulfilled because I never gave them grandchildren.  Way to make a person feel good about themselves.
 
 
Current Mood: annoyedannoyed
 
 
 
thrull_o_ha_des: cry Girthrull_o_ha_des on December 23rd, 2006 11:41 pm (UTC)
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Sometimes, I think you scare me.
(Cries a little bit inside)
(Was about to talk about childhood, if that explains anything)
evilkat_meowevilkat_meow on December 23rd, 2006 11:48 pm (UTC)
O_o I scare people? Yeah, okay I guess I can see that. I just had another person accost me about not being pregnant yet. It's like they think my eggs are going to dry up or something. It gets really fucking annoying after a few years. First its "when are you getting married?" and as soon as you do, it's "when are you having kids?" Don't cry, I'm just venting my frustration.
Jukeboxjukebox_csi on December 24th, 2006 02:42 am (UTC)
Awe hun *big hug* don't let 'em get to you. That used to happen to me all the time, especially after I hit 35 and still didn't have any. A few times, I'd get pissed enough to tell them we most likely couldn't have kids based on what the docs said, and that would shut them up. But, then I'd feel guilty for making them feel bad. Now that we have one by some unexplained miracle (also known as thyroid pills), now the questions have changed to 'so when you having another one?' as if I could or something. *shakes head*

Try not to let it get to you. It's your life and whichever direction it may take you in regards to children is perfectly fine. *hugs again*
evilkat_meowevilkat_meow on December 24th, 2006 03:03 am (UTC)
Ya know, I almost pulled the "I'm unable to have children" card, but decided against it. I'm sure I would have felt terrible too. Ugh, I can almost understand it coming from my parents, but when it's people I barely know, I just don't understand the gall that people have sometimes.

Thanks, hun.