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16 March 2009 @ 08:40 pm
One bright spot amongst the dark  
The VP of my dept approved me going part-time.  It will mean I won't have as much disposable cash, but it will take some of the pressure off my father in-law.  That is, when this whole thing is over with.  My MIL is being sent for radiation everyday this week.  The doctors are hoping to extend her timeframe since she is so alert.  Not sure how long they're guesstimating they can give her.  This may sound a little harsh, but if its only a month or two, why bother?  She's not in any pain, which is good. 

The waiting game continues.
 
 
Current Mood: relievedrelieved
 
 
 
rookafrk on March 17th, 2009 08:35 pm (UTC)
Oh, honey, I'm sorry I only came across all this today, browsing your latest journals. On the one hand, it's good that you could arrange the part-time job.
By experience of accompagning people with a cancer, I can tell that the radiation thing is terrible and can also be really painful, I'm sure your husband's familly will think it over carefully. Now, maybe she needs some more time to say good-bye in spite of the sacrifices.
Even though your husband doesn't show his pain much, I am sure he appreciates you being there for him and knows he can count on you.
I think of you and of your familly. I wish for you to find a way to live through these very sad events as peacefully as possible.
*big hug to you guys*
evilkat_meowevilkat_meow on March 18th, 2009 02:12 am (UTC)
She was a lung cancer survivor and went through Chemo and radiation 5 years ago. We thought she had it beat, but it came back and is moving so rapidly. I think we're all still in shock over this whole thing to fully deal with it yet.
evilkat_meowevilkat_meow on March 18th, 2009 02:13 am (UTC)
And thank you for your well-wishes. (I hit post too soon)
(Anonymous) on March 19th, 2011 10:22 pm (UTC)
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